happiness and fun!

"If you're a true friend, you won't hinder what makes a friend of yours HAPPY!"

Ive been a 'bridge' between my friends, the guy happened to be one of my closest guy friends since gradeschool.. the girl was one of my 'kabarkada' they lasted for almost 3 years.. but they eventually broke up approximately 5-7 months ago. the reasons given by the girl were as follows:

1.their schedule is conflicting

2.the guy wasn't prioritizing the girl anymore

3.she has fallen out of love.*thought she didn't directly admit this, it seemed to be that way*

when the girl broke up with the guy, I was the one affected by what happened since the guy often opens up to m how much he was hurt by the girl's decision and how he wanted her back. I was also hurt by what's happening cause i can feel and see how much he was hurt, but still he wanted to respect the decision of the girl which makes the things much complicated for his part.

The girl on the other hand insists that her reason for breaking up was never of another party, I even recall telling her that she can give all the reasons she can ever think off except falling inlove with a guy whom she was often paired up to in their class. Cause as she was telling us, the guy was courting a girl form another school and when they were paired up the guy suddenly changed his statement by saying that he was just friends with the girl and that everything's over between the two of them.so a liar!!

to cut it short that guy and my 'kabarkada' are now together for like 6 months,, im not sure.

and just a while ago we met the guy after long months of just knowing him thru photos and stories of my friend.

Thinking of the possible scenariolast night, I was so sure that I would be rude to him. ive been planning to do it actually,, so that I could at least get even for my friend.

seeing the guy, he wasn't good looking as compared to my friend.. wow! you can truly see the difference in terms of face value!

he was tall just like my friend but doesn't have a good fashion taste! imagine., we're about to watch a movie and he was wearing long sleeves and slacks?! just like a salesman!eewww!

regarding his character, he's not even a gentlemen to offer to my friend to bring her cake. I mean she's his girlfriend why not bring it for her?!

in short, if I were to rate his approval. he flunked!! no thinking twice!

but then Onite told me and santy "kaya kayo gnyan, kasi pinapagcompare nyo sila ni Marlo, eh magkaiba naman silang dalawa."

ouch! that hurt! whether I accept it or not Ive been biased in dealing with him, I never even gave him the chance to talk to me, cause i made my self to appear snob so that he won't have the guts to talk to me cause I still mhaven't accepted the fact that he was my friend's replacement over my close friend. I think she has lowered her standards upon choosing him. mean but that's what I really thought!

but as I was looking at my friend, she looked happy and contented talking to him eventhough she was the one holding the cake. I can't describe her much. but she just looked so satisfied and loved.

last night as I told my Mom that we're going out, i mentioned to her my complaints regarding Nikki letting her boyfriend tag along with ourmuch awaited day out.I told her that i dont' like her new boyfriend and was still in favor of Marlo instead, but then she told me..

"Ate hindi mo naman masisisi si Nikki eh, eh kung wala na nga talaga silang time sa isa't-isa diba? mas naniniwala pa rin ako na mas madali kang maiinlove sa taong madalas mong kasama. baka ganon ang kaso nila,,"

It was just now when i realized that I shouldn't have been to biased not to talk to him, cause If i were Nikki's true friend i would be happy just by seeing her happy. its the real essence of friendship, you accept that their happiness wouldn't be always dependent on what us friends would tell her to feel or to do.

Post Birthday Celebration...

finally I was able to stroll with my angels again after 4 long months of not seeing each other. we met at ali mall in national bookstore at the card section. We waited for wendy for like two hours.. goodthing I decided to buy a cake for nikki which would serve as our gift for her cause this was unplanned.

we bought tickets for Big Momma's house 2 then we ate at the food gallery something of gateway. I was so full after the meal.. it feels great eating and chatting the with people I missed so much..ehehe! too dramatic!

after the sumptuous meal we headed back to the fourth floor to wait for the movie and for wendy at the same time. she arrived at exactly 3:10 when onite headed to the cinema,,ehehe! actually we ran to the cinema cause Nikki texted us that the whole place was free seating and that she can't reserve seats for us! shucks! God I dont want to seat next to a jerk who would never even bother laugh at the most funny joke on the movie!!

we sat at the 2nd row,, while the movie still wasn't staring I was narrating my endless escapades to wendy.ehehe!<>

I enjoyed the movie,, ths story was all bout Malcolm an FBI agent who lied to his wife so as to get the next mission of being a nanny to the children of their suspect so as to be able to investigate under the guise of Big Momma. Eventually he was able to help the family settle their difefrences which created a gap between each of the family members. its a hilarious family movie!:)

after the movie we headed home instead of going to ali mall to sing at a videoke hall something. I suggested that we sing at our house instead,, good thing mom's magic sing was available!

while singing we ate Nikki's cake wafter singing for her tha birthday song, our sections' version.eheheh!the never ending one!:) I missed that too.. awww..

what I missed about my angels..

wendy- this girl never fail to listen to all my stories, no matter how senseless it is, she would always want to listen.

santy-her sarcasm and her make up kits which makes us click all the time

onite-her clumsiness and her jokes that are way too funny to laugh at..eheheh!

nikki-her unique laugh and her child like tantrums!

God I missed them so much,, thanks for this day! i really really enjoyed it!

*ecstatic mode*